Relationship Issues

Part III: Letting go of blame: lightening your suitcase.

So, what is it that makes it so hard for us to take responsibility for our own stuff in relationship conflicts? I think that the reason why we go through so much turmoil in trying to disentangle problems in our most important relationships is because it is so hard for us to look at our …

Part I: Boundaries in relationships: is that your suitcase?

Recently, I was standing at Pearson Airport in Toronto waiting for my luggage to come off the conveyor belt when I realized that I had made a big mistake buying my London Fog suitcase in black. There was a sea of black suitcases pouring down onto the revolving platform all of which looked almost identical. …

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